Thinking about what if it all goes right.

I used to think I had to have all tension resolved before I move forward.

I used to think that I need to know the end result before I begin.

I used to think I had to conquer uncertainty to even try.

I used to think brave meant not having any fears.

I used to think I had to have all the answers.

I used to wonder what if it all goes wrong?

Thankfully I’ve learned a few things along the way, especially that life is too short and too beautiful to live in fear, so I’ve changed my tune. And one of my most listened to songs is What If It All Goes Right.

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But what if it all goes right?
What if it all works out?
What if the stars line up and good luck rains down?
What if you chase your dreams and it changes your whole life?
Yeah what if it all goes right? 

 

Now I do what I can, with what I have, where I am…

even with fear
even with tension
even in uncertainty
even without answers
even as I say I don’t know
even taking the first step without knowing where the last step will be.

By changing my mindset I’ve done more than I ever imagined I would… and while I still have fears, uncertainty and more, I look forward to what is ahead. More books, more speaking, more marathons, more helping others, more peace, more ?

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“What If It All Goes Right” preformed by Melissa Lawson. 

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We often only have enough light for the step we are on… so taking the first step, literally and figuratively, will give you the light and the confidence to take more.

They say talk about what you know, so here’s suggestions for things that are near and dear to me: sign up for a 5k or a half-marathon or go to a writing event.

But what is near and dear to you is probably different then what is near and dear to me…

so what dreams are you not pursuing because
you’ve been thinking about everything that could go wrong?

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I’ve linked this post to Life: Unmasked at Joy’s Blog today. Click over there to read other posts about living real, authentic lives.
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  • http://www.newequus.wordpress.com/ Mindy @ New Equus

    What if you step out and do this thing and it actually does go wrong? What if that was the point all along? To go and try so you could learn a lesson in the trying. :)

    • http://www.JanetOberholtzer.com Janet Oberholtzer

      Yes, if we are willing, we can learn from every experience. As Thomas Edison said after another failed lightbulb attempt – “I didn’t fail. I just found 2,000 ways not to make a lightbulb; I only needed to find one way to make it work.”

  • http://www.acrazykindoffaith.blogspot.com/ Chris PM

    So true!   I never had heard that song before…the words are great!   
     
    I find it is a daily affirmation, and, {{sigh}}…. not easy.    Need to go over to Joy’s blog to check it out.  :)

    • http://www.JanetOberholtzer.com Janet Oberholtzer

      Daily motivation/affirmation is what keeps me going also… just like daily brushing my teeth keeps them healthy.

  • http://twitter.com/ThePaulSims Paul Sims

    Hey! Found you through Joy in the Journey. I love the sentence just under the video. I’ve found this to be amazingly true in a number of recent circumstances. Thanks for this post!

    • http://www.JanetOberholtzer.com Janet Oberholtzer

      Thanks for visiting! And yes, I continue to learn how true that concept is… taking steps (even if they are baby steps) helps in so many ways.

  • Matt Vogel

    I tried that “what if it all goes right?” thought process at a marathon not long ago…  My training had gone well until 6 weeks before the race- then a strained achillies, pulled calf muscle, and various other things kept me from running for 4 weeks.  So, 2 weeks before the race I could start again, and build up milage.  I had been biking for all 4 of those weeks, but biking isn’t as good as running for a running race.  I had no idea what to expect… anything from 3:05 if it all went right, to DNF. 
     
    Turns out, everything did go right…  ran a 3:02.  :-) 
     
    (and, coincidentally, have been reading this blog ever since!)

    • http://www.JanetOberholtzer.com Janet Oberholtzer

      A late response here… but wow, that’s impressive. Congrats!