How Does a Religion Begin?

Most of us don’t like religion … we might like the idea behind religion, which is worshiping God as we understand him, but as a general rule, we aren’t fond of religion for the sake of religion. Religion can be too divisive, too rigid and people who adopt extreme religious ideas and practices have been causing serious problems for centuries.

Since I was a child, I’ve wondered about the connection between humanity and a divine being. So off and on over the past twenty years, I’ve researched various religions, including many ‘flavors’ of Christianity. I’ve been noticing a pattern that bothers me. (Actually I notice many things that bother me, but this is only a blog post, not a book.)

This pattern is … throughout history as life is happening (sometimes smoothly, sometimes not) someone becomes restless or dissatisfied with the status quo as far as religion goes. Then through a nudging, a word, dreams or stones they receive a ‘revelation’. They feel compelled to share what they received. They begin sharing their thoughts as beliefs. They gather a few followers. Soon a church or movement starts based on it.

from ThomasTheDoubter.com

With time they (or their followers) expound and clarify their beliefs and put them into doctrinal form to make sure these beliefs are firmly held. To enforce the beliefs, rules have to be made, especially because religions tend to view people as bad, not good. As the church or movement grows, the rules/traditions naturally grow and eventually a full-fledged religion is born.

Life moves on … the beliefs/rules are firmly held and sadly many times enforced with everything ranging from a verbal shaming to death (in the name of God, of course) Until … a decade, a century or a millennium later someone else comes along and is dissatisfied with that status quo. A restlessness emerges, a message is received and the cycle repeats itself.

It seems to me that whenever someone (or some group) solidly defines their beliefs, it inevitably turns into a religion.

I’ve been on a spiritual journey of sorts over the past few years and recently I was trying to define what my beliefs now are. I felt like I needed to have clarity, definitions … or at least some solid ideas. But since processing how religions seem to be formed, I’ve been wondering if it’s wise to have solidly defined religious beliefs. Maybe beliefs need to be in constant renewal to have any value … to ourselves and others.

Just like it isn’t healthy for a body to be motionless, maybe our spirits shouldn’t be motionless either.

Maybe we should always be willing to learn more about the connection between humanity and the divine … even looking beyond our own sacred texts. Could being willing to continually learn help us not turn our beliefs into a religion, which we then worship instead of the God we set out to worship?

In my book Because I Can I wrote … One thing that confuses me is that while Jesus was here, he drastically changed the way things had been done for the previous centuries. Yet, now Christians try to live Biblically, meaning they study the Bible and make rules about how to live as the Christians did back then. But when Jesus was here that was the very thing he told people not to do. He encouraged them to forget the religious ways and instead to look around themselves and interact with the rest of humanity in a loving way.

I’d prefer to put more energy into treating others in a kind, loving way then in following a religion, so now I’m wondering if I really need to have clearly defined beliefs.

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So I’m curious … do you have solidly formed religious beliefs? And if so, how do you avoid turning them into a religion?
And how does having  solidly formed beliefs benefit or hurt you? Or benefit or hurt others around you?
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  • http://www.veronicamonique.com Veronica Monique

    This is a most excellent post which I relate to at my core.  I don’t have a solidly formed religion because religions, ALL religions, I feel, limit me in ways that slowly kill my spirit.  There was a time I thought that there was an answer, one truth that I needed to understand.  Now I see that that truth is only that there are things beyond my understanding, but this shouldn’t limit my attempt to understand them as much as I am able in this life.  Some people find peace, security, and comfort in adhering to a particular religion.  They need to believe it is right because otherwise they feel lost.  Not everyone is comfortable with the spiritual journey with guides coming and going, leaving them to search on their own from time to time.  They want rules to point to as they walk a well marked path, and say I’m doing this so I am good.  Interacting with humanity is important.  I feel a Dogma reference coming on here, so forgive me any offense, but it’s better to have an idea than a belief.  (That movie made some interesting points among the hilarity.)

    • http://www.JanetOberholtzer.com Janet Oberholtzer

      Thanks Veronica! 

      I think you’re right on with this thought … “They want rules to point to as they walk a well marked path, and say I’m doing this so I am good.”  

      In some ways, that would be easier, but from what I’ve experienced if you are depending on rules to make you feel good, you always need more rules.

  • Janis

    I think it turns into a bad thing when you decide that the people who don’t think the same way or who have a different concept of numinousness are BAD and WRONG and the Out Crowd.  There’s nothing wrong with saying, “This works for me,” if others agree and try it out.  It goes pear-shaped when you say that no one else gets to have their individual path that works for them.  It goes pear-shaped when you say that the ways in which other people are bad and wrong are just coincidentally the ways in which they aren’t you.

    There are certainly bad people in this world, but that’s defined by how mean and malicious they are and how they treat others.  Badness is not defined by all the ways in which someone differs from rhetorical-you.

  • http://www.madebydenise.net Denise Smedley

    The idea of turning my own thoughts into a religion seems egotistical.  

    Truth is, human beings don’t live long enough to truly understand anything.  

    I think most of us looked at Steve Job’s death and wondered what else he could have accomplished if he had not been ill.  We simply don’t live long enough to form any perfect rules for anybody to follow.

    How could I possibly form a religion and indoctrinate my imperfect thoughts and claim that they are sacred?  I’m not really sure how people have the nerve to do that.

    I actually resonate most with your core values of treating others in a kind loving way and showing compassion and empathy.

    I give you a lot of credit for writing this!  It was a very genuine post.

    • http://www.JanetOberholtzer.com Janet Oberholtzer

      Thanks Denise!
      I’m with you … claiming my thoughts are sacred would be crazy. And isn’t that how many religions start and years later, many people believe those thoughts are sacred/holy/life-changing? 

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Nancy-Ebersol-Good/595606322 Nancy Ebersol Good

    From one ex-”plain” girl to another….I couldn’t agree more with your “thoughts” on religion(s) and applaud you for so bravely and beautifully sharing them with us.  When hubby and I lived in San Diego, we visited Freeman & Verba at the MDS camp in Julian quite often.  We were there soon after you had left, and heard the story of your accident.  At the time we had no idea you were a friend and neighbor to hubby’s sister.  It was nice meeting you at her 50th birthday party sometime later.  Now…if you will excuse me please, I have a book to order!  :)

    • http://www.JanetOberholtzer.com Janet Oberholtzer

      Hi Nancy!
      (your husband is Patsy’s brother – right?)
      Thanks for stopping by and for your kind words about this post. I was nervous putting it up … but so far, so good. I thought of Freeman and Verba the other day and would love to connect again, do you have an address for them?

      • http://www.facebook.com/people/Nancy-Ebersol-Good/595606322 Nancy Ebersol Good

        I do not have an address for Freeman & Verba but I see you just became fb friends.  And yes, you guessed correctly, I am Ron’s wife.   We made a quick trip to PA for Rachel’s lovely wedding a few weeks ago.   It would be a treat to get together with you the next time we are at home.  I just read your “How Does Religion Begin” blog to Ron.  We are so on the same page as you are.  Again, thank-you for so beautifully articulating your (our!) thoughts on this highly controversial subject. 

  • Anonymous

    “I’m wondering if I really need to have clearly defined beliefs.”

    You may not have landed on the particulars of your beliefs, but all of us must choose a source for them. This “source of truth” may be a sacred text, social norm, philosophy, or some “ism”. Even those who claim to have no set beliefs have chosen their “source of truth”.

    • http://www.JanetOberholtzer.com Janet Oberholtzer

      P … interesting point. So even if I think I’m not clearly defining my beliefs … yet somehow I am? 

      So if I’m willing to be open to listening to others, to learn from others, to renew my thoughts/beliefs/etc when needed, I’m still choosing some “source of truth”?

  • http://kclanderson.com KCLAnderson (Karen)

    I do not have solidly formed religious beliefs and like some of the other commenters said, I think that even if I did, it would be presumptuous at best and egomaniacal at worst to think I could turn them into a religion! In some ways this mirrors how I feel about health/wellness/fitness: the paths we take are as individual as we are and who I am I to say that my way is the right way or the best way for someone else? That said, there have been times when I have felt somewhat preachy about certain aspects of what I have learned along the way. And so I say to myself, “practice, don’t preach” and “it’s not mine to fix.”

    I love the way you think and write Janet!

    • http://www.JanetOberholtzer.com Janet Oberholtzer

      With this post I wasn’t thinking about turning my own thoughts into a religion as much as how it seems others (or their followers) have done that through-out the ages.

      “Practice, don’t preach” is a great line to remember. Thanks!

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  • http://www.nomadwayoflife.com Nowhere Man

    This is a great post and is pretty much in direct correlation to my own personal beliefs. I don’t know that I will ever be able to get past the “seeking” phase because I truly believe that the true God, Karma, Universe, whatever you want to call it, would be _inconceivable_.  Our tiny little brains would not be able to comprehend or process its true form or motive because it would be so vastly superior that the scope of it’s existence would be beyond measure.  I think the sooner that we are willing to accept that, closer we come to finding the truth. Sometimes, it’s okay to admit that we do not have all of the answers. It’s part of what makes us human.

    • http://www.JanetOberholtzer.com Janet Oberholtzer

      Hi Nowhere Man, 
      Thanks for visiting here! And you are right that not having all the answers is part of being human… and it’s freeing to learn to be comfortable with mysteries. 

  • Suedodo

    I do have solidly formed religious beliefs,  and they do influence my life. As an
    adolescent and young adult, I questioned 
    and struggled with many of the doctrines I was taught as a child, tried
    visiting churches of other denominations, engaged in some lively, and sometimes
    heated discussions on  specific concepts.  I have come to believe what I do through much
    soul searching and Bible reading, studies and reflection, and have returned
    fully to the “religion”  I was
    raised with.  That being said, I am
    mindful that Jesus taught us to live in the “spirit of the law”  rather than the “letter of the law”.
    and here is where people fall into conflict with one another. They forget Jesus
    was about the “spirit of the
    law”, which actually amounts to the Golden rule.  I share my faith with those who want to hear
    it, but  do not insist mine is the only
    true one.  

    • http://www.JanetOberholtzer.com Janet Oberholtzer

      Thanks for sharing your story. I think the golden rule is a great way to live life. And your last few lines show the wisdom that you have.