Condemn Dragons or Get to Know Them?

I participate in a Blog Carnival bi-weekly. Today’s word is condemnation. What! Why? I was thinking I’ll skip this week, because I didn’t feel like writing about condemnation.

But then a dragon came to my rescue.

Yes, a dragon.

Dragons usually aren’t a part of my life. I grew up in a strict Pennsylvania Dutch world and there are no dragons in that world. They are much too sensible for make-believe — it’s all about hard work. Along with being PA Dutch, my family was super-traditional Mennonite, so there was no TV, radio or fairy tales. Therefore no dragon had ever rescued me before … but that all changed last night.

The story begins with my high-school senior having the flu and a new movie.

He has always liked dragons (I left the boxes of my childhood, so make-believe has been a part of his world) and after seeing a scene of “How To Train Your Dragon” play at Wal-mart, he promptly bought it. (this time I’m glad he forgot about all my advice not to spend money impulsively)

Yesterday he was home from school with the flu and asked if I wanted to watch the movie with him. A cartoon movie about dragons on a Monday afternoon? No, not really. That’s what I thought, but did not said … even when my childhood tried to rear its head and remind me that I should be working.

I settled in to learn how to train a dragon (expecting to be bored, so I kept my laptop close by)

The vikings had been at war with the dragons for years. The viking’s goal was to eliminate all the dragons and live in peace. Over the years hundreds of viking and thousands of dragons had been killed. The vikings weren’t any closer to winning than before … but each generation was sure they would be the one to solve their pesky dragon problem.

All viking children heard endless stories about the dangers of dragons and knew dragons were condemned to die, so they eagerly went to dragon-fighting school hoping to become a hero by slaying the most dragons.

This was a problem for adorable young Hiccup. He would rather draw or go for walks than hurt anything. Actually he couldn’t hurt anything even if he tried. He got weak all over and his knees buckled under him. He tried to be mean and tough like the other kids … but he never succeeded.

But he had no choice since his dad was a leader in the community and expected his son to become a great viking. So dragon-fighting school it was. The boys and girls (yes, this was an equal-opportunity dragon-fighting school) mocked him. The teacher (who had both a hook arm and a peg leg) had to save him from the mouth of dragons more than once.

After an embarrassing day – with the teacher annoyed, his dad angry and his friends laughing at him – he escaped to the woods berating himself for being a wimp.

As cartoon movie fate would dictate, he met an injured dragon in the woods that day. Through a series of fumbling, bumbling events, Toothless and him became friends. (by now my laptop was closed)

Hiccup realized that dragons weren’t vicious — they were only aggressive because their lives were constantly threaten by the Vikings. Once he took the time to get to know a dragon (which no one had ever done before) he knew they shouldn’t be condemned to die.

First he shared his secret with a friend (the girl that he admired) and then he risked his own life to show everyone else that dragons are cool.

He became a hero and now all the children have dragons as pets and everyone lives happily ever after … because once you really know a dragon (instead of just knowing handed-down information and oft-repeated stories) it’s much harder to condemn them.

Are there any dragons in your world that you should get to know instead of condemning?

For more blog posts about condemnation … go to the One Word At A Time Carnial here.

PS. Thanks to Shawn Smucker for the twitter convo that lead to this post.

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  • http://flowingfaith.blogspot.com Mari-Anna

    Excellent! The power of stories! Yes! Thank you for sharing! Kiss a dragon a day….keep condemnation away!

    • http://janetober.com Janet Ober

      Thanks Mari-Anna … love the visual of “kiss a dragon a day” :)

  • http://lisanotes.blogspot.com/ Lisa notes…

    Isn’t it funny how once we can put a face on a “condemned” one, we often change our mind about him? I love your dragon story. May we all learn to get to know our dragons instead of condemning them.

    • http://janetober.com Janet Ober

      Thanks Lisa … yes, it’s all about knowing a face instead of relying on second-hand info.

  • http://redclaydiaries.com Steph

    This is great! So many parallels and thoughts provoked.

    And I loved that movie too. :)

    • http://janetober.com Janet Ober

      Hi Steph, Yes … lots of parallels, I keep thinking about them since watching the movie last night. And I almost want to watch the movie again and I rarely watch a movie twice.

  • Susan D

    This was an awesome post. I want to see the movie, but more importantly, it makes me realize that things aren’t always what you are told. Being open minded can change your life and the lives of others around you.

    • http://janetober.com Janet Ober

      Hi Susan,
      Watch the movie … you will be thinking even more about how things might not be what they appear to be.
      Thanks for visiting!

  • http://lainiegallagher.wordpress.com Lainie Gallagher

    GREAT post! I love it. And I don’t really want to think about how many dragons I refuse to get to know.

  • Shelly

    Good thoughts… I think sometimes we too often make judgments based on what other people have said, or our past experiences rather than taking the time to talk it out with someone, we choose to walk away-that SEEMS so much easier in the moment. How do we “fight our dragons” today, by walking away or do we offer grace in spite of our fear and see where it leads? Questions I am pondering in light of your post today! Thanks Janet for allowing a dragon into our day!!

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  • http://www.BridgetChumbley.com Bridget

    What a great story! I’ve been wanting to watch the movie, and now when I do I’ll be thinking of this lesson.

    Thanks for sharing!

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  • http://www.heathershodgepodge.blogspot.com Heather’s Hodgepodge

    The older I get, the less I know.

    • http://janetober.com Janet Ober

      Heather … same here!

  • http://www.ayoungmomsmusings.blogspot.com Young Mom

    My upbringing taught me to condemn everything sight unseen. Now I struggle not to condemn anything that reminds me of my upbringing.

    • http://janetober.com Janet Ober

      Yea … that’s a tough one. I’ve deal with that also because I grew up very traditional Mennonite (almost Amish) and anything different from our way of life was wrong. Now I try to look at everything/everyone/every ‘dragon’ with love and an “innocent until proven guilty” attitude. And I’ve finding there are less and less things that I judge as guilty.